Well I spent my spring break at my sister's house... before I left my husband told his mother... and she started saying a whole bunch of thigns... like.."if you take nyab be careful she will run away from you"... or "don't let her stay with her sister who is with the white guy.. she will tell nyab to run off.." I got mad and I told her that my sisters weren't like what she said.. and her reply was " oh.. kuv lam hais xwb os".. but then whatever.. I hate it how she says a whole bunch of crap and then tell me that she wasn't implying it to anyone.. Now I know why her children don't listen to her.. it's because it's just all bs that come out of her mouth all the time so now I don't bother to listen anymore.. it is wrong for her to judge my sisters when she doesn't even know them at all.. it seems that everyone expects us to take the steps of my father.. but then we are nothing like that and people are just idiots! they don't take the chance to get to know us for who we are.. they know us as they know our father... errrr... it bothers me how ignorant people can be.. especially hmong people.. their always negative....